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Sexual Problems For Men and Women

By: Roberto Bell

Some of the biggest problems for daters are the various sexual issues they face when the relationship goes well. It's all lovely when you're dancing, dining and chatting over coffee, but what if you have a sexual issue when the lights go down, and you get more intimate? There are several ways this can be challenging.

The primary issues which men face include rapid ejaculation, erection problems, and delayed ejaculation. Most men will have had premature ejaculation at some point in their life, because it is by far the most common male sexual problem: over 75% of men ejaculate within three minutes of entering their partner during lovemaking. If you're a man, the best way to deal with this is to make sure that your partner has enjoyed her orgasm through cunnilingus or manual play before you penetrate. That way, she'll be happy and you'll enjoy the thrill of a new sexual partner without fearing that you look stupid because you come too quickly. And it's always helpful to remind her that one of the reasons you're ejaculating so quickly is because you're so excited to be making love to her!

The next most common male problem is erectile dysfunction, which affects about ten percent of men at any one time. This is actually a fairly simple problem to deal with in many cases, especially when the problem stems from first time nerves. If you're a man and it happens to you, don't panic, just tell her that this just shows your anxiety about ensuring she's happy in bed, and then give her an orgasm through cunnilingus or manual play, knowing that next time you'll be more sure of yourself and able to make love without losing your erection. A great way to boost your self- confidence is to get some Viagra, which you can obtain from various internet pharmacies, and take it before you make love. This will help you to overcome any confidence related issues about losing your erection.

The third most common male sexual problem is called male orgasmic disorder. This is a somewhat more unusual problem where a man cannot ejaculate during sex despite prolonged thrusting during intercourse. It's often a real issue for men and women, which causes conflict and misery in a sexual relationship. If you're a man who has suffered this problem in lovemaking, there is a simple self-help program on the website listed below in the resource box.

For women, the most common problem is inability to orgasm during sex, a condition called anorgasmia. Often it's caused by a woman's nerves about sex, or the fact that she has issues with her body. If you're a woman with problems reaching orgasm during sex, you might like to look at the website listed in the respurce box which has a self-help you can use at home to deal with inability to reach orgasm, and which should make sex into a happy event which gives both you and your partner great satisfaction.

Finally, for couples, there's the constant challenge of which sexual position to use in lovemaking. We all enjoy the basic missionary and woman on top positions, along with rear entry and perhaps the side by side sexual position as well, but it's certainly the case that variety is the spice of life when it comes to lovemaking. If you'd like to explore the whole world of sex positions, there's a tasteful website with lots of photos, called Sex Techniques and Positions. Just type "Sex Techniques and Positions" into Google and you'll find it.

Rod Phillips is writer of How To Reach Orgasm and Ejaculate Normally During Sex. You can find more information on sex positions at Sex Techniques and Sexual Positions. If you want to beat premature ejaculation, see Beat Rapid Ejaculation!.

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